Sometimes you need to give people space, time, distance to hear themselves think, to find out what they want, how they feel. Sometimes it’s as easy and natural because you also need space or find yourself distracted by life and other times it is difficult because you feel the need to be close. It is at these times it may be useful to remember that space, time and distance, are only a perception, a thinly veiled illusion, a trick and therefore it is possible to feel loved and close from one end and at a distance from the other. Like the fleeting feeling that you’re being observed and yet you go about your day as you would without a second thought about the presence that so loves your company. What else is love if it isn’t patient, if it isn’t kind?